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2 responses to “Hospital visitation memo will take months to implement”

  1. TJ

    how flippin diffficult is it for people to live and let live?

  2. Peter Chamberlain

    I’m straight. I’m conservative on most social and economic issues…

    However, I’ll be d—-d if I can think of one even arguable reason why my wife or I, or a gay or lesbian person, or anyone else, should be denied hospital visits… with anyone we have indicated, beforehand or at that moment, that we want to see….

    I used to be single, was hospitalized… and had visitors, of both sexes, and a designated attorney in fact for health care….

    Married, my wife and I have both needed hospitalization and had hospital visitors to whom neither of us were related by blood, adoption, or marriage. On one occasion, we conspired to pass off one of my wife’s best friends as her sister to get around such a d–n fool hospital rule…. [We did so because], during and around the time of a procedure, she needed the support of another woman friend. Going to court would have been too expensive and taken too long. I challenge anyone to explain how the hospital’s or anyone’s rights or reasonable needs were thus violated….

    I advised gay and lesbian clients, and heterosexual clients … to provide in advance for… whatever perils I was being paid to anticipate… and to prepare plans, agreements, wills, trusts, and other documents to deal with them. I’ve done property arrangements for heterosexual couples who, for one reason or another, could not or did not get married but wanted as much of the protection as possible under existing law…. [and I prepared them] for gay or lesbian couples who did, and did not, ever tell me the facts of their personal relationship beyond buying residential property together…. Sometimes the lawyer needs to know, and sometimes he doesn’t really want to know, the whole truth about his clients.

    What relevant and material difference would the patient’s or the visitor’s sexual orientation make in such a situation? Why shouldn’t any well-behaved person I want to visit me in the hospital be allowed to do so if I don’t have too many visitors at once?

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