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2 responses to “New study shows that before things “get better,” there are consequences”

  1. Gene Ard

    What I find lacking here is the subject of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder among youth, young adults and adults.

    I have PTSD and it really leads straight back to Middle and High School harassment, abuse and assaults.

  2. Suri

    It doesn’t get better. You’re a gay kid and soemday you’ll grow up and want to marry. But then you’ll learn that 75% of Missourians voted to make it impossible to make that dream come true because they decided to amend our state constitution to exclude YOU.And just you.Your neighbors didn’t exclude convicted spousal abusers from marriage. They didn’t exclude child molesters from marriage. They didn’t exclude the worst kind of criminals on death row. They just excluded YOU, kiddo. And people like you.But you’ll work hard and maybe get a good job, and soemday you’ll want to put the person (you wanted to marry but couldn’t) on your health insurance. But HR will tell you that’s impossible, because you’re not married. If you’re lucky, you may discover that you earn enough money to afford to pay for health benefits for your beloved, benefits that your heterosexual colleagues get for free. If you’re not lucky, you’ll watch your loved one get sick and go bankrupt, or get sick and die. Maybe then you’ll discover that Missouri doesn’t have a law barring your employer from firing you for being gay, or from taking off work to be with people who aren’t family. Of course, you can’t have family, because you’re gay.And you might look around and think, Dear God, isn’t there somebody who can help? and you’ll get punched right in the back of the head by all the lovely Christian people who think you’re an abomination and destined to burn in hell. Of course, all this condemnation is somehow evidence of how much they love you.So you might look to politics, where politicians promise to do something about the laws that oppress you, and then they go to court to defend those very laws.Better? It gets better? Really?Because I’d really love to know when it’s going to get better.

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